But if you have never held a vibrator in your hands before, it can be difficult to guess. Most women, of course, as a result of experiments find ways to satisfy themselves, but it is better to use advice for women who begin to use the vibrator.
Time: The first time you should give yourself at least half an hour, or even more.
1. Meet the vibrator.
Pull the vibrator out of its packaging and find out how it works and which batteries it needs. Press the buttons, turn the vibrator on and off, sort out the speeds and settings. Be sure to wash the vibrator before first use. If the vibrator is not water resistant, make sure that no water gets into the battery compartment. Check the vibrator for sharp edges or seams (they can be easily sanded and protected). Make sure that all parts of the vibrator are securely attached and that all cables are intact and safe.
2. Start by getting to know each other in private.
Even if you plan to use a vibrator with a partner, it is best to test the toy on yourself. You can relax and concentrate on the sensations without distracting your partner. Find a time and place to get some privacy. If you have children, thin walls or noisy neighbors, you can always play music, use a blanket and scarves to muffle the sound.
3. Do not turn off the light.
Not everyone will find this a good advice, not everyone likes to watch, but playing with a vibrator in the light can be useful and instructive. You can find particularly sensitive places on the body with many nerve endings and waiting for stimulation. This knowledge can be useful in the future and should be shared with your partner. You can certainly get the same result in the dark with a simple touch, knowing where the vibrator is, but it is much more useful to observe the process
4. Do not turn on the vibrator.
Let your body get used to the vibrator. Walk it all over your body, not including it. Feel it. Press it harder against your skin, massage yourself with it. If the vibrator is made of hard material, it should feel great. If it is made of soft rubber and does not slide on the skin, try it through your clothes. You don't necessarily have to drive yourself to orgasm, it's just a way to introduce your body to the vibrator.
5. From less sensitive places to the most gentle
With the vibrator on, start your examination with your feet and hands. Walk it up and down the arms and legs, stomach, shoulders and neck, head, face. You can do everything through your clothes first. Although vibrators are mainly used to stimulate the vagina and clitoris, you do not have to go straight to the main one. Feel the vibration with your whole body, and then slowly move to the most sensitive places. You can move slowly along the inner surface of your hips or along your chest and nipples.
6. Take your time. Examine every inch of it
The most amazing thing about vibrators is that they never get tired, so you can examine every inch of your body. Most women use vibrators to stimulate the clitoris, and many say that different parts of the clitoris react differently to vibrations. Imagine yourself as an explorer, and the vibrator will be your compass and signal fire. Slowly, by stopping the vibrator in one place, you will be able to establish sensitive connections that have never existed before.
7. Experiment with the speed
Most vibrators have several speed modes, at least two. Always start with the smallest. If the vibrations seem too intense at first, put a towel between you and the toy, or just don't press so hard against yourself. It is quite possible that for some areas of your body will be quite enough and the minimum speed. Other areas will need more stimulation. Some vibrators still have a pulse mode, also experiment with alternating minimum and maximum settings.
8. Experiment with pressure force
Try pushing the body with different forces. You may like it when the vibrator is pressed hard against the clitoris, but a light touch is probably enough. You can just press the vibrator against your body and have a real massage. If the vibrator is powerful, the harder you press the vibrator against your body, the less vibrations you will feel. The harder you hold the toy, the more vibrations are absorbed by your hand.
9. Stimulation is point or full surface
Try the stimulation with the tip of the vibrator, then the widest part. When point-like stimulation occurs, the sensation is much more intense than when stimulating a larger surface. The sensation of the vibrator on the labia or around the clitoris may not be transferable. Because the clitoris zone is much wider, deep stimulation of this zone can produce exciting sensations that are different from direct stimulation of the clitoris.
10. Vibrator for penetration
Most women use vibrators for external stimulation, but if it is safe to administer, there is no reason not to enjoy it. The vibrator is suitable for internal use, if it is smooth, has no sharp edges, it does not absorb biological fluids. In any case, it is recommended to put a condom on the vibrator when inserting it internally. A water-based lubricant should also be used.
11. Internal researches
Start with a slow insertion by first exciting yourself with external stimulation by a vibrator. Since most nerve endings are not inside the vagina, but externally, many women like the process of insertion of the vibrator. Some women use a vibrator to stimulate point G. It is also suggested that the nerve endings in the cervix are sensitive to stimulation.
12. Use a vibrator with a partner
When having sex with a partner, the vibrator can be used in many ways. You can simply stimulate yourself during intercourse, you can stimulate your partner (or vice versa). You can choose a vibrator that suits both, without having to adjust and control anything. And yet, before there are three of you in bed, it is worth taking the first steps to get to know the vibrator.
