- You have an idea of what brings you satisfaction and how to get it.
- You have a way not to lose passion by using a sex device with your partner.
Few people can get an orgasm just through regular intercourse, from caressing with their hands or mouth, but for fear of condemnation from other people, they do not dare to use sex toys. Regardless of whether you feel you enjoy a certain type of masturbation or stimulation, there are still many options for how to get pleasure out of sex for both you and your partner. And it doesn't matter if you use sex toys as the additional devices or not. If you already have experience in masturbation on your own, you will be interested to know how it can be included in a joint sexual practice with your partner and add the sex vibrator, dildo or womanizer for it.
Joint masturbation
All of these pleasure with the person you love can be of many kinds. For example: mutual self-satisfaction, touching, contemplating how your partner masturbates. You can additionally stimulate the clitoris with a vibrator at the same time as the penetration of the penis into the vagina.
If your partner feels insecure about using sex toys in intimacy, then tell him how much he excites you, but you need a little extra stimulation to achieve complete satisfaction.
Hand him a toy as an experiment and let him use it on your body on his own. By conducting such sexual experiences with the vibrator, and evaluating your reactions to various touches, your partner may become interested. He will also understand what kind of stimulation brings you the most pleasure. And to get pleasure together, you can use special vibrators for couples.
If you would like to avoid using a vibrator at all during intimacy with your loved one, you can consider other ways. In particular, by doing regular pelvic floor muscle workouts, many women find it easier to have an orgasm. You don't even need to buy a gym membership for this, Kegel exercises can be done at home and at work. Regular exercise strengthens the pelvic floor muscles, increases blood flow to the genitals, so the chance of get an orgasm during the sex will be increases for women like that.
Another way to have an orgasm without the help of a vibrator is to experientially stimulate different areas of the genitals and the vagina. Many people think that the clitoris is only a small head that is located at the junction of the labia minora. But it is not. The clitoris consists of many parts, some parts are not visible. Do stimulation of different areas along the border of the clitoris, and simultaneously the labia, crotch, vagina, G-spot.
Another option to get an orgasm during intimacy can be the technique of rocking the pelvis: on inhalation the pelvis swings back, and on exhalation - forward. Breathing should be deep, the pelvic floor relaxed, and the movements smooth: from the abdomen - to the back. Do not be afraid to use sex toys as for single masturbation, and during intercourse with your partner. This will open up new sensual facets of sexual pleasure for you and allow you to get to know each other better.